To those struggling with breakups, you are meant for someone
Hi guys!
I was inspired to post this piece after a breakup turned nasty. I really hope this helps young people around my age (19) because I want them to believe that the best will come to them.
After a breakup, even when you gave your best and you received it back which I did, it makes you feel like you still weren't enough for that person. With my most recent relationship, she said she saw 'the real me' (with my very mild autism) she didn't like it and she tried to make me change who I was to satisfy her. Thus she broke up with me.
After it's happened a few times, you feel as if you are never going to find someone special. But if you're reading this right now, I want you to know that it's not true. You will find someone very special who will see through your flaws and love you for who you are. They will make your heart swell to the point where it might explode with happiness. They won't ever want to leave you because they will be at their happiest when they are with you. Every time they say "I love you", they will mean it.
If you are struggling right now, that's okay. It doesn't make you any less of a man/woman. You are enough. You are amazing, beautiful, strong and magical. You are meant for someone and you will find them.
Big hugs to you all! ❤
@TedtheRocker1998
You know what,I read something on this site a while ago which I think is very relevant to your situation and. can apply to a lot of us waiting for that special person to come into our lives..It goes like this:"At your best,you still will not be good enough for the wrong person..At your worst,you will still be worth it to the right person!'So,keep on looking for the right person who will not try to cha be you and learn to love e yourself first!Only then will you attract t the right people in your life ! Wishing you good luck )
@intellectualCake2979 thank you so much! That is so inspiring- sending love and good vibes ❤😊
@TedtheRocker1998,
You are welcome!👍Keep going on the healing journey,there are a lot of us here in this community supporting each other,you've made the first step to your recovery from abuse by coming here to look for answers and help,so just keep going!😊❤You are not alone in this and there is a way out!Put yourself first,love and respect yourself,this is really important!Sending you best wishes!