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Unable to get a relationship

User Profile: JohnDoe00
JohnDoe00 May 30th, 2017

Greetings.

I'm frustrated. I'm 36 years old and i never had a real girlfriend.

Looks like i will never have one and all my chances to have one were gone and all my female freinds are either married or have children.

I'm fed up. It takes me too much work and time to get new friends and i have no more patience to do so.

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User Profile: 0m
0m June 25th, 2017

@JohnDoe00

I hear your disappointment with your current phase of life however there is no short cut to a friendship or relationship. Human interactions do take time and patience, particularly when you want a girlfriend who will share part of your life! It's not just a matter of convenience to fill the space, it needs the effort to explore the kind of person they are, so that it saves future hurt. If you don't have the time or patience at the moment perhaps focus on other priorities and let this one wait for when you can invest emotionally into it.

User Profile: ambitiousTalker2046
ambitiousTalker2046 June 25th, 2017

I am really sorry that you are going through this.