2nd chance?
My boyfriend of 5 years was asking other women for nudes. He said he wasn't going to do anything if he got them he just wanted them. But he had sexual pictures and videos to send to them if he had gotten one sent to him saved on his phone ready to send out.
He said he had forgotten about the pictures and videos he had the intention to send out. He has been a compulsive lier for the longest time and I'm not sure if he actually forgot. Because of his lies I question everything that comes out of his mouth.
He says he wants to be a better man, and not a cheater, to regain my trust and to love on me. But I'm just scared that I'm not good enough for him and that I'll always be 2nd best to other women. Idk what to do...
My now ex husband was spending money on hookers insted of saving to pay bills. I found the messages on his phone. You're worth more than that behavior and you don't deserve him asking other women for nude photos. Don't let him make you think it's ok behavior. Unless you're both in agreement and it's an open relationship (which it sounds like you aren't in that kind of relationship) cheating is a CHOICE, not a mistake. He made that choice and it's not your fault.
@intelligentavacado, I can see this is not your first post about this situation which tells me that it's not improving for you.. I think you know the answer to your problem and I suspect you need support from here to help you leave the relationship that is not serving you. What frightens you about ending it? Are you needing reassurance that what he's doing is good enough reason to leave? Read back over the responses you have from others on your other posts and the answers you need are there. You are obviously not happy with the situation for you to keep addressing it. I'm here if you need a hand to hold.