Am I The Asshole?
My fiance has an online friend he met a month ago through a karaoke app. She's supposedly happily married but I have been feeling uncomfortable with the friendship as I've seen him sending her some flirty things and inappropriate things. She generally doesn't say to much back but will send an emoji or something. She did once tell him he was cute (whatever, he is)..
Anyways She www bugging him to do these romancey voice acting things with her and he knows that I've had alot of anxiety over what's going on between them... We've fought about it a few times. I have terrible anxiety anyways but he also cheated on me about a year and a half ago so we were in therapy and building trust walls back up and such and then when I saw that stuff it made me feel a sort of way.
I asked him to please not do the romance voice recordings with her because it would make me uncomfortable. I know that it'll just set off my anxiety flags and such and so I was trying to communicate that....
He got pissed at me and stormed out of the house. He thinks I'm being absolutely ridiculous and that I should just trust him and have nothing to worry about etc. And I'm trying but I felt it was okay for me to speak up when something would make me uncomfortable to prevent future issues....
Am I overthinking to hard? Am I being ridiculous?
I want to add that a few weeks ago I was VERY sick and asleep in his lap with a fever. I awoke at one point in time and he told me all excited he'd planned our first camping trip... I got excited until he said that she and her husband were going to fly out to join us. He made the plans without me....
