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User Profile: Qu3tzalcoatl
Qu3tzalcoatl December 6th, 2021

I've been talking to this woman for a couple months here, and I have no idea what to do. Things started great, we flirted constantly, there was "chemestry", she was excited to have me around. Then 2 weeks in something flipped. She was physically distant/hesitant, which has turned into emotional distance. She has been very open with me about everything saying that she "did not feel a physical connection" (meaning she wasn't drawn to me sexually), which I took to mean I was in the friend zone. Fine, it happens, I'll deal. But she's still romantically interested in me, openly so. I'm so confused. She backs away from kisses or compliments that are remotely intimate, but tells me she feels safe and secure around me. I'd have been gone weeks ago if I didn't feel super connected to her on an emotional level. It's been really hard to wrap my brain around.

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User Profile: halcyonCloud2036
halcyonCloud2036 December 7th, 2021

@Qu3tzalcoatl

Jeez, I would be super confused too! Maybe it is time to sit down and define mutually what is off-limits and what is acceptable. That way, you can decide if you feel that this is something you want to continue. Otherwise, I worry that you will continue to feel conflicted about what is going on and how to best respond. Either way, I think once you have a heart to heart talk, you will have clarity.

All the best to you ❤️