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Boyfriend's ex flame currently back in his life

User Profile: Summershy
Summershy April 11th, 2022

Hi:

Last week, I ended up meeting someone who I boyfriend briefly dated for a couple months before deciding they were not compatible. To give a small back story, this person is currently living with my boyfriend and my mom due to some serious personal issues.

Anyway, my boyfriend made me clear to them that he's in a relationship with me and has no more interest in dating this person due to having some serious problems of their own. Yet, this person still likes my boyfriend and even

1. Boasted to me what they used to do when they briefly dated 😒

2. Told me that they preferred my boyfriend with hair than bald 😐

3. They also happened to have a phone on loan from my boyfriend's mom which still has an old picture on he home screen of my boyfriend when he 15. This old flame had the nerve to show me the picture on the phone.

In the meantime, I told him everything via text which he was not happy about.


In fact, I think he felt so bad about what happened and asked me if he could come over the other night. I am glad he did because we had a good time.


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User Profile: decisiveNorth5857
decisiveNorth5857 April 12th, 2022

Wow that girl is not right. Sounds like she is trying to steer you wrong. Your man told you whats up. You trust him. Ignore the pettiness of those people. Have him re-evaluate the situation. If the ex isnt going to respect his current relationship then the boot with her. She should be grateful that someone wants to help. As for you keep it strong as people with cruel intentions don't like to see others happy. Stay away from her if you can. When he is around her make it so you are too if you feel something is up. In the end it will be about the situation and how your man handles it.

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User Profile: Summershy
Summershy OP April 13th, 2022

My boyfriend made it clear to this flame that he has a girlfriend now. I take that as a hint that he wants to be faithful to me.


He told me they went out for a few month before realizing his ex has a lot of personal problems. He also told me not to worry about this person and the situation too much as he doesn’t like her.



User Profile: Summershy
Summershy OP April 13th, 2022

@decisiveNorth5857

I should also mention something else:

The sad part is that my boyfriend's ex is homeless and live with my boyfriend and my mom. Though my boyfriend and his mom sound like they are caring people, I am concerned that they are being taken for a ride.

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