Cheating
On 31st of December 2023, My fiancee cheated on me by sleeping with my ex friend because I was away from home.
As per now I'm really stressed up and I don't know what to do. I do still love her for real but this trauma is really killing me because it's unbelievable.
What decision should I take to solve this issue?
@crb2000
in order to get over something like this IMO getting to the bottom of it is important....the REAL issue.
IMO people do not cheat just because "you were not there ......so why not..."
it is a decision made with thoughts........ of all that could and will go wrong when caught ...... and deciding it is still worth it. ......... It is a decision to throw away or damage a relationship in this case damage or end a friendship too. If she will not tell you the deep truth, you both will not get over it.
i can say when i saw this happen in my life it was much deeper with hurt and resentment and miscommunication and assumptions at the heart of the problem, not well you were not here at the time. IF that is her only reason she is not serious about ANY relationship.
It was basic hurt and frustrations we had ignored or did not deal with .... we had to face up to many truths that were not always comfortable to tell each other or face about the relationship.