Communication Issues
My bf and I are constantly fighting because of bad communication. It seems that no matter what I say he gets mad or if I take him seriously and get upset. He also gets upset when issues caused by my past come up because I should just turn them off and not think about those issues when I can’t just turn it off.
@demonslayer04I don't think you need to fight all the time to solve everything. I think you can try some other ways to solve things. For example, find a place where you both like to sit down and have a good talk. I think both of you probably need to give each other a chance to explain and listen. This way you won't have to fight all the time and don't like to listen to each other.
@demonslayer04
bad communication is the road to misery....... spouse always been a bad communicator and so we just kicked issues down the road or tried a workaround for everything...... now at a place we cannot do that any longer find out what are your triggers in communication and his ....
make a plan to call them on a trigger for example when my spouse says "i always do this or that " knowing always/ never and absolutes only end badly.