FWB OR NOT?
I’ve been fwb with this guy for about 4 months and honestly we don’t know each other but when we hang out it I feel comfortable with him like I’ve known him for a long time (best friend vibe) and I can tell him everything about life, work, etc. I feel like he feels that way too cause he does the same.
I ALWAYS ask to hang out and he is always down unless he already had plans and MOST of the time we hang it’s like Netflix and chill at his place but not straight to the point we would literally watch like 2-3 movies, episodes or w.e
When I’m there over weekends sometimes he asks if I want to crash there and then go home in the morning or whenever I’m ready. Most of the time I do other times I’m like nahh I got responsibilities tomorrow.
I asked him last month what we were he said friendsss….. he asked why do you feel more I said idk what I feel and I asked it back he said noOoo…imma be transparent with you, I ain’t trying to lead you on or hurt you and if you’re ever uncomfortable let me know. I said okay thanks.
We also talked about if we are seeing other people to let each other know because we want our health to be safe. I asked twice if he was seeing or talking to others he said no. Recently he didn’t realized I was still talking to this one guy that he knew about from day 1 and asked if I had sex with him yet I said no I’m not comfortable with that person and he said okay then quickly changed the topic.
We text EVERYDAY and sometimes before I come over he restocks his mini fridge with coconut water and vitamin water for me which I think is really sweet.
I know when a guy says he isn’t interested to believe him and that’s how my mentality he but mannnnn he is confusing AF!
Let me know your thoughts on this!
@emotionalSkies3636
Thank you so much for posting, I think you should be really open to him about how you are feeling.
I mean last month when we spoke about it for 5 mins he said friendsss then asked if I felt more I said idk and then I asked him if he did he said nooo and then said how he will be transparent with me and isn’t trying to lead me on or hurt me and whenever I feel uncomfortable to let him know.
So I take it that he isn’t interested and pretty much never will be
@emotionalSkies3636
Wishing you all the best!