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Fiance and communication

User Profile: Randa84
Randa84 December 16th, 2022

My fiance and I have been together for almost 4 years. We're supposed to be going to Utah for Christmas! For some odd reason he thinks that I should be able to read his mind or know what he needs me to do without anything! When he got aggravated because I had no idea I needed to do something I told him that I wasn't a mind reader. He popped off and said, "this is going to be my last vacation we get to go on together". I couldn't believe he said that!! I took off my ring and tried to give it back to him but he wouldn't take it! So, I don't know what I need to do? Do I go with them still or stay behind and move out?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 18th, 2022

@Randa84

stay calm and keep going..... the reality is that is what has happened on almost every vacation i ever went on with spouse .... it gets worse assuming the other person is on the same page as and train of thought ....things in frustration will be said but it is not the end of the relationship ... please learn communication skills be fore saying I do