Help what do I do?!
So basically my boyfriend is a cricket umpire and he wants me to go watch him umpire this evening. He’s not having the best day and I really don’t want to disappoint him by not going (especially because I really do want to). The only problem is, nobody’s ever there watching and I don’t want to be the only person there like last time. What do I do?
if you really want to go then go, especially since he is having a bad day. just knowing he has your support, even when no one else is there, will make him feel so much better!
Try reframing how you think of possibly being the only one watching the game. How can you view the solitude in a more positive way? What can you do to make the experience either more enjoyable, relaxing, or fulfilling for yourself? Write down what you think of so you can remind yourself if you forget while staying up in the standa.
You’ll have to do what you ultimately want to do. I personally would just go. So what if you’re the only one there? Put headphones in and just support. He’s not having the best day, so maybe this would really turn it around for him