Idk what to do
So I’m still in love with someone, and I care about them. But they are pissing me off and pushing me to my limit. But I also really like this guy in my church group but idk if he likes me back. Idk what to do anymore.
maybe you should open up and tell the person you're in love with that you have limits and that they're going too far. Sometimes we like the idea of someone or us being with someone. If you like another guy, get to know him better first
@indigoOrange9898 well, I’m not ALLOWED to be with the person I’m in love with, nor should I be talking to them but I still do. And they know I have limits and still push them. My other crush just likes to make me laugh and all that.
@GayBirbsSunflower Well, I know its hard but you need to communicate how he is making you feel and know his side of the story so that you both can reach to a conclusion. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
@GayBirbsSunflower hi there . Thanks for your question. I can appreciate the feelings when they are romantic can be confusing. Maybe reflect on these things: How would you feel if you confessed what you felt to him? Do you feel there needs to be a condition for you to confess (like he needs to not already have a significant other, he needs to match your personality)? In general reflect on how you are approaching your feelings towards him and maybe ask what are the signs you are looking for which indicate someone is in love versus not in love. I wish you all the best with whatever connection you have with this guy. Good luck!
