I don’t know what to do?
I got into a small argument with my girlfriend I tried reaching out a couple of days later and she didn’t respond. Reached out the next day and she told me she wasn’t mad that something seems off and said to not contact her. Her text message seemed off kinda like if she was upset about something so im not sure if I said something that probably made her upset during the argument cause she won’t tell me . I told her she sounded mad and to tell me if she is upset so I could know so I could try and fix the problem but she didn’t reply back. And she blocked me on social media that same day. But I wasn’t blocked before I reached out so I’m not sure if I reached out in the middle of her being upset and she just acted out of anger.
I haven’t spoken to her after that so im not sure if she’s giving me the silent treatment or what? So far I just been giving her space to cool down.
@helloPomegranate2904 Heard your experience. My feeling is that your girlfriend must be heartbroken, maybe it's your actions or words that hurt her. I think you need a good explanation right now
From a different perspective do think she’s hurt how would I go by reaching out if she doesn’t want me to contact her?
Without knowing the context of your argument and her side of the story it’s hard to say it’s one thing. It’s possible she got turned off by your behavior and is done with the relationship without flat out saying it. Telling you to not contact her and blocking you from social media is enough evidence for me to believe she’s done.
the argument wasn’t that bad it was mostly just bickering back and forth this is second time she distant herself after her getting mad. Last time she was communicating but to a bare minimum and it was dry communication. Then I found out after a while that she was mad when she said she wasn’t that’s why she was acting like that.
