I over react alot without realizing it till after.
While my boyfriend and are interacting sometimes little things he does upsets me and I will often shut down or Push him away if he's trying to comfort me afterwards. We have been getting into more little arguments and he has brought it to my attention it's weighing on him and he's been feeling like he's walking on eggshells. I'm really looking for advice. Maybe on if there's any way to start to change how I act before it's to late also just to better myself so I don't continue on this path
@compassionateStrings6551
Very proactive and impressive for you to tackle this before it gets worse.
is it possible it is not that little thing you may argue about at a moment.......but the build up of several similar items in the past...? I had this issue where some small item was just enough to set me off when in fact it was a bigger picture type of thing.......... Once i openly acknowledged that it was easier for Me to let go of the small items....... as the occur.
If a repeat of the same behavior and if you can find a way to gently address it when it happens again it is easier for both parties to slowly for example break a habit or do the same item over and over ........
