Is he interested in me or not?
It started two years ago. I've met this wonderful guy from my college and we study at the same class. We share the same opinions about things, same music taste and even we love the same food. Then we started to go out together more and more (we also have the same friends)
After a while, he started to give me signs about how much he likes me, every time we go out he tell me something and leave me wondering if he likes me! He also got jealous of my other guy friends and tell me to leave them. Also, he told our friend that he likes me. Long story short, he kept doing that for a whole year! Even though i gave him signs too that i like him and trust him (but we both didn't say the exact word “i love you” )
so what is making me confused is that why till now he doesn't confess his love? Is it because he doesn’t love me anymore? I really love him and i cry everyday just because i can't have him and kiss him. Please anyone have been in a similar situation?
@hajerNN
I may have missed something in your post but it sounds like you have many things including friends in common......... but it did not sound as if you dated just hung out in a group....for a year
showing interest and even being somewhat jealous if another is showing interest or telling a friend he likes you ....... is not the same IMO as a relationship.
Has he has not asked you directly out to date or be alone yet? seems like you have a ways to go before someone declares their love.
We aren't dating and yes we go out alone to places that we like but not as a couple just like friends
@hannyYy
Generally speaking, if he was interested he would likely have said or done something to let you know by now. It is possible he is too shy: in which case you will need to ask him directly. Looking for signs or hints in someone’s behaviour is just going to confuse and frustrate you further, considering it’s been going on for over a year.
Perhaps a simple “ (?) mentioned you like me: did you mean as more than a friend or just as friends?”
Then whatever answer you get, it is important to accept it and move on if needed.
@hannyYy Maybe you could tell him how you felt. That might give him the confidence to tell you back what he feels for you. Maybe you should make the first move
