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Is this disrespectful?

User Profile: Carol0316
Carol0316 April 1st, 2025

Im casually dating with no commitment a 33 yr old and im 53. After watching a movie at his place, I noticed he'd finished a 6 pack in under 3 hrs. I was fearful he may mistreatment as other men who drink a lot have. He then tells me he's just going to scroll down his ***..and starts scrolling. I felt that was disrespectful and was tired and wanted to leave anyway. Then he says "oooh hot chicks" which to my perspective as adding insult to injury so I abruptly got up and said we'll there's my exit call. He then accused me of jealousy..I tried telling him I'm not jealous but he wouldn't believe it and so I got annoyed and said we'll it's obvious you're not interested in me so it's time to go. My issue is simply that I felt it disrespectful to tell me he's just going to scroll his *** when I'm there as his guest and the chick's comment was in my view, just disrespectful too. Is this a generation gap thing? Am I missing something here? 

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User Profile: Remina
Remina April 2nd, 2025

@Carol0316

Definitely sounds disrespectful! 

User Profile: haleyhelton86
haleyhelton86 April 2nd, 2025

Disrespect

User Profile: jacek73
jacek73 April 2nd, 2025

@Carol0316

I can't see the word the forum algorithms replaced with stars (as inappropriate), but I see at least two issues here: First, he's been totally disrespectful. Second, he seems to be already in a deep relationship with alcohol.

I think you deserve much better than that. And I would give him no second chance, even if he apologises.