It has been 7 months
She haunts my dreams and my mind night and day. Ruminating thoughts are intrusive...
I recognize how toxic she was, but i still miss her deeply...
How do I forget her? How do I stop comparing everyone else to her.
Right person wrong time?
...I wish I could talk to her l, but without warning or reason she ghosted me 2 weeks after break up. I was in no contact, so I have no idea what happened....
I am a glutton for punishment, but I feel like everyone you love deserves a second chance.
I feel lost.
@Jess515
Hello,
Being ghosted is challenging. I can understand why you would feel lost and even miss her. I would feel lost too in that situation. Have you explored any coping mechanisms or things you could use as a distraction? Distractions can be very helpful during a breakup💛💫
@Jess515
Ik how you feel and I honestly am curious what other will say or suggest
However soemthing that I keep in mind is the toxic aspect yes second chances can exist but when someone is toxic its probably just the idea of them I want not the person they are if that makes any sense
I think self reflection is extremely important in situations like these
