Kids

Hi I’m a 21 almost 22 female and I’ve been dating my 24 male bf for a year now and all my life I dreamed of having kids and have always talked about wanting like a million kids to my close friends and family but when we starting talking about our future together a while back he said that he doesn’t want any kids but if we were to get pregnant by accident then he would have a kid that way. I’ve rekindled an old friendship and this old friend is a male and he and I had met on a dating app like my bf we never were serious and we never went and met in person but we met long bf my bf was in the picture and so I just can’t help but wonder what my present would look like if I had ended up dating him and I also can’t help but think that I know he too wanted kids and how we wanted everything that the other wanted too and our only difference was political views which I don’t care abt as long as they don’t shove it down others throats or force ppl into hearing or believeing it as long as they are respectful and not rude abt their political views I don’t care what side or anything they are but I love my current bf and I really see myself having a future together like we are saving for a house of our own and we cheer the other on when they are down and all that good stuff but my only issue is kids

I’m going to talk to him tmr and reiterate to him how important kids and wanting to be a mother is for me and hope we reconsiders but I know I can’t change someone to want what I want

so what do I do