Long Distance Relationship
I keep feeling terrible whenever I make plans bc my partner seems sad. They never discourage me from making them I just feel bad that I know they’re probably sad about me having fun without them and missing me. Am I in the wrong? How do I make them feel special while maintaining a social life?
@overEmpathetic613
Hi! I hope you are doing well. I understand how you are feeling because I was in a LDR too. I know it's really hard when you are having fun and missing them, but I don't think you should feel guilty about it. You still have a life to live, even if they aren't physically here right now. I think it's important though to spend time with them when you can! Set up movie dates or just times when you can talk to them about your day. Communication is key! Good luck!
I am too in a long distance relationship and just wanna know if it's normal to not worry this much, last Thursday night after work have my boyfriend hangout with his female colleague about 5 of them and he's the only guy going on a bar and haven't heard from him since that night and that was the first time like usually when he goes out even if he's drunk he texts me when he's home but this was the first time he wasn't.... should I be worried? also he kinda gaslight me when I asked him about this. I just felt disrespected and he said he won't be bothered talking to me since I said something like who wants their boyfriend hanging out with an all girls night out? at the end, I said I was sorry he didn't even address my feelings about it and make sure nothing happened that night...