Love triangle
i just desperately need advice! i’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years but he has stopped trying and doesn’t make me happy anymore. i love this man to death, but i’m just not in love with him anymore so it feels anyways. however, i’ve grown strong feelings for my best friend and i just don’t know what to do. my best friend knows how i feel, but it’s just making me so stressed out to the point where i’m relapsing from my previous mental health issues. i don’t want to make the wrong decision in the end. should i give my boyfriend one last chance? i honestly feel as if nothing will change personally
@taylahr
A stranger should never make this choice for you. You should ask yourself, what do you have, what you are willing to lose, and what will you gain? Sometimes it is not about being "happy" in a relationship but the thick and thin a couple share together. Happiness is a fleeing moment. It is more important to ask, will the one who stay at your best, stay at your worst? How will either relationship look like in 5-10 years? maybe 20 years? I am a sucker for long term relationship.
If that isn't what you anticipated, you should choose the person who is most supportive, been there for you, and you are more content and at peace with.
thank you so much!
@taylahr the best advice i can give you is to just talk to him. tell him exactly how you feel
@taylahr This decision is supposed to be taken by your heart. Your heart will be the one who will take a right decision.