Military girlfriend
So, I really don't know if this is a breaking point or not. My guy is military and will be leaving at the end of the year. We were chatting yesterday and he was telling me how his boss was trying to convince him to live in an RV if he gets sent back to California. And I mean, I get it. Rent is rediculus there, but I don't know what the hell he's thinking. After he leaves I'll still have 3 months on my lease so I thought the game plan is for me to follow him to where ever if he's in a place that I can once my lease is up. He also has a big dog. I will not live in an RV with him and his big freaking dog. It's like he's not even planning for me to follow and I don't know how to bring it up. Every time I ask about what comes next he tells me how he can't give me any answers untill he knows where he's going which won't be untill 3 months before he leaves. Do I just wait untill we know where he's going to bring it up? It just scares me that he doesn't seem to be planning a future and ive told him time and time again that I don't date with out the intent for a future and if at any point he's done just to tell me. I'd rather him be honest then to string me along.
@Kjump33
What branch is he going into and is he going active duty or reserve because this will make a huge difference? If he can't tell you what will happen even after he is done, I'd say move on. With him not being there and being away from you for a while, there are chances he will cheat on you. I've seen it first hand but I'm not saying he will, but there is a chance he might. Being in a relationship with someone who is in the military is a big deal and comes with tons of stuff.
He's marines. He's already been in 6 years and I knew what I was getting into when I agreed to date him. Basicaly he won't discuss what happens next meaning me following him or waiting on him because we donxt know where he's being assigned to, if he will be somewhere I can follow, or if he's being sent over seas. I've asked him before for sescenarios. Like what will happen if he's somewhere I can follow, what will happen if he's over seas and he just tells me he can't give me any definents right now because he doesn't know where he's going.
@Kjump33
I see. It sounds like he is unsure of the relationship with you. If he was serious, he would have talked about a plan with you. It's not because he is waiting to see where his next duty station is before he can give you an answer. I feel if he wanted it to work out, he would have talked about you going with him. Maybe he isn't ready for a commitment of long distance relationship.