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On and off relationship

User Profile: Ybgbilly
Ybgbilly May 12th, 2022

My girlfriend will break up with me and get back together with me often. This confuses me because she seems so certain that she wants to leave and stay away but will always come over the next day to watch our show. Yesterday we got in a pretty big fight and both made a few mistakes. When she left home I tried calling her and she told me that we’re done. Later on that night we had snuck out of the house to meet eachother and talk and we started cuddling and we got back together. This morning she texts me that she wants space and time. This confuses me

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User Profile: 0m
0m June 15th, 2022

@Ybgbilly

You're right, it does sound confusing getting so many mixed signals repeatedly. It seems like she isn't really sure about where she sees this relationship going. but she likes being around you. It might be just a phase while she figures things out but it is your choice whether you are okay or not to wait while she figures it out. You could also try talking to her to see if there are solvable issues that might be the cause of her repeatedly breaking it off.

User Profile: MarisolRodriguez
MarisolRodriguez June 16th, 2022

She's just testing your boundaries and hers to see what she really likes and wants. It's a normal part of a relationship, I think she wants more in her relationship so try doing more for her and see if it clicks.