Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav
Feel better with online therapy Professional, confidential and affordable. Start today
Ybgbilly
172 M Embraced 1
PathStep 5 Compassion hearts16 Forum posts8 Forum upvotes7 Current upvotes7 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2022 Member sinceMay 12, 2022
Bio
Recent forum posts
Ybgbilly profile picture
Fights
Relationship Stress / by Ybgbilly
Last post
 June 20th, 2022
...See more Me and my “girlfriend.” Constantly fight about many things. We always but heads rather than viewing it as me and her vs the problem. I’ve talked to her about this but she takes offense to it and in turn gets defensive and try’s to fight again. What can I do?
Ybgbilly profile picture
Mental abuse
Relationship Stress / by Ybgbilly
Last post
 May 18th, 2022
...See more My girlfriend always told me that I am toxic and manipulative over and over again. I didn’t know what she meant by manipulative, I didn’t know a thing about manipulation. But she continued to call me manipulative. Finally I researched manipulation and couldn’t recall a moment I’ve done anything of the sort of what I found. Interested I researched more into manipulation and found out that she is manipulative, I thought for the longest time that there was something wrong with me. Felt like a monster, thought I was a problem because I was “toxic and manipulative.” She doesn’t know that I know more about manipulation now, so whenever we get into arguments about something when we don’t agree she will call me manipulative as a defense mechanism. She hasn’t stopped this behavior but in a way I think she manipulated me by telling me that I was toxic and manipulative and made me feel horrible about myself to make herself feel better when we argue. I know that I am not the problem, and that I am not manipulative. But I believed I was terrible for so long and it really messed up my mental health.
Ybgbilly profile picture
Self harm when angry
Self-Harm Recovery / by Ybgbilly
Last post
 June 14th, 2022
...See more When I get angry I often punch myself in the face or punch other things, normally breaking my knuckles. Does anybody have advice as to how I can stop this behavior? I’ve tried to breathe but the thoughts won’t stop until I let out the anger
Ybgbilly profile picture
On and off relationship
Relationship Stress / by Ybgbilly
Last post
 June 16th, 2022
...See more My girlfriend will break up with me and get back together with me often. This confuses me because she seems so certain that she wants to leave and stay away but will always come over the next day to watch our show. Yesterday we got in a pretty big fight and both made a few mistakes. When she left home I tried calling her and she told me that we’re done. Later on that night we had snuck out of the house to meet eachother and talk and we started cuddling and we got back together. This morning she texts me that she wants space and time. This confuses me
Search more from @Ybgbilly
Talk to an expert therapist
I am classically trained as a Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and...
Talk to Danielle Now
Badges & Awards
7 total badges
Hand Shake Linked First Post Reaching out Helping out First Compassion Forum Friend
Report an issue
Considering therapy? Talk to a licensed therapist, wherever you are. Get started
Feel better with online therapy Professional, confidential and affordable. Start today