Struggling..
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. I feel his father hates me as we do live with him. His fathers actions makes me want to leave for months at a time because im uncomfortable being in the house. He takes anger out on me, not hitting or abuse, but he makes me feel that im the cause of his problems due to his words. We have been living with him for a year and we are struggling to get out, but it feels his father is single handedly destroying our relationship and my boyfriend doesn't see it. When I stay with friends I never want to come back to the house. I dont know what to do.
It is difficult to deal with in laws and living situations .....is this a temporary thing to build savings to get own place or why are you living with him.... avoiding the issue instead of trying to compromise IMO lasts a long time and resentments and things are not easy to get over later.
Your BF is use to his father and will not see the things that bother you. You can try living apart but that will only make your future relationship with possible father in law worse down the road.
