Trust issues
Hi. I don't trust my boyfriend of 4 years. I used to trust him. But then I found out he watched porn of which I consider cheating. And he lied to me about it. Even though it's been a year since I caught him doing it. I still don't trust him, I feel like every word out of his mouth is a lie. I want us to be how we used to be I want to trust him again but idk how to go about doing it.
@intelligentAvocado8214
Heyy! First of all, I am glad you felt this forum safe enough to speak up about this. I don't know if you or everyone would agree but trust is the basis of a relationship. You trust someone enough to make the decision of loving them through everything. And if you feel like something he has done has broken that trust, then you must allow yourself some space to reflect on it. You know, think if what he has done is bigger than what you would want to have with him. It is okay to set clear boundaries, tell him clearly what you like and don't, it will also allow clarity for you on what you want and what you don't. It is all your decision at the end, so you should be confident with your answer, and not hang between what could and what could not have been. I hope you are understanding what I mean, and if not, then we all listeners are here for you! To help and support you through whatever! 
