Unbiased Outside Mediator
I’m really looking for a mediator to help discuss and dissect our arguments/issues that seem to just keep happening over and over. We end up just getting so hurt/angry and ending our arguments with more animosity towards each other than actual understanding.
@goodLake6235
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@goodLake6235
Unfortunately, 7 cups isn't really set up for mediation. Even the paid therapy sessions on the platform are for individual therapy.
You are welcome to connect just to talk through it all on your end.
For mediation though you can use the therapy directory to find a therapist and connect off of the 7 cups platform (one of the exceptions where this is ok) or if you're religious your local community may have an option as well.
You could work on discussion skills yourself. You could ask members how to approach discussions.
I love asking new questions/ trying out different point of view scenarios with my partner during conflict. I also love the fact you mentioned this, however it’s more of an issue with a lack of both parties being on the same page and or having any leeway on actual progress to be on the same page of each others issue/feelings to where we can agree and come to a respectful solution/compromise. By the end of any debate we both feel like the crazy one and that nothing was actually accomplished or resolved.