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What should I do ?

User Profile: PresleyroseP3294
PresleyroseP3294 October 15th, 2021

i feel like I am not good enough for my boyfriend because I get jealous really easily but I have a reason to be because he has cheated on every single girl he has dated but he hasn’t done anything within our relationship so I don’t know what to do it say. I also get very emotional when we have a tough conversation and end up feeling guilty even when I didn’t do anything. I dont know what to do I just feel like I’m pushing him away.

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User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath October 15th, 2021

@PresleyroseP3294

Considering his past you feel insecure that what will make things different this time and it is valid to feel insecure and jealous .

I would really recommend talking to him about your feelings, hard conversations can often help strengthening relationships, on the other hand .. assuming things leads to worse . You have every right to talk to him if something bothers , you're needing re assurance and that is a valid need , you're not wrong in wanting to feel valued, secure and safe in your relationship . If your partner really wants that, he will try his best to make you feel assured and supported, leaving no reason for you to doubt his intentions . However then yes, we can not let overthinking and someone's past affect us so much that we ruin the present . Have a heart to heart with him and then if he assures you, you can try and build trust slowly. it is difficult , I know but trust and communication are foundations of all relationships and I truly wish you both the best .

Take care ❣

User Profile: vlostwithyouv
vlostwithyouv October 15th, 2021

I think if you just read that back you will see yourself in a.nww.light.imagine someone else has posted this what would you say.