Why would he want me to move in with him
In the beginning of relationship everything was amazing, he showered me with love, attention and wanted me to be good all the time but now
acts like he doesn’t care sometimes by ignoring your texts, goes out with friends sometimes on weekends and was not there during the most traumatic experience of your life ( I had a miscarriage 3 months into my relationship, I drove my own self to the hospital.. he never showed up).. wants me to move in with him and his grandma really bad ..
I’ve been dating this guy (21) for 6 months now.. I am 25. I decided to break things off yesterday and he’s been blowing up my phone.. the pressure he’s putting on me to move in with him is too much he says he loves me but his actions don’t match his words sometimes… he even told his grandma I was moving in and she's expecting me to do it, when I never agreed. What is the urge for me to move in? I am confuse..
Two possiblities here:
1: he just wants to get in your pants and he wasn't done using you yet when you broke off with him.
2: he has been busy and feels incredibly bad. He thinks if you move in with him he'll be able to be there for you more and support you.
He used a form of manipulation called love bombing, he lured you in by showering you with affection and having a good time and once you got comfortable he turned that off, hoping you would stay with him. Not cool of the man.
