Will you get back to someone who broke up with you?
Hi My name is P. I'm 27 years old Female. I have some bad behavior in relationship. i tend to overreact and run away when things get comfortable. I broke up with a nice guy because I didn't get enough attention from him, out of my anger 2 days ago and I regret it now. we've together for around 7-8 months. I did something like this before with him a couple times and he always try to talk with me, but this time he seem very mad and didn't want to talk to me. so right now I'm struggling between should I go try to win him back or should I let him go. and what can I improve if he give me another chance and to prevent this behavior of me?
@courageousShip9178 *I mean when things get uncomfortable
@courageousShip9178
If you want him back, go try to win him back. At a certain point he may have stopped talking because he saw no chance in your pattern.
What you may need to change is communication. tell him when you feel like running. Explain what you need or want. I wasted years expecting somehow my partner should just KNOW ... if I had only spoke up and communicated better. I always said they were bad at communication, instead I realize they simply did not know what I was going thru.
Relationships are complicated so it will take the two of you to work things out, if he decides to resume communicating.
People have their limits to what they will put me up with and it might be, he has reached his or maybe he just needs some time.
At least you are here, admitting you didn't always behave appropriately and that will help you to grow and improve.
If you do reunite and are able to discuss things, you'll have to air out the big differences and what needs to change in order to make a success of it.
There are always valid reasons for breakups. You felt you didn't get enough attention. It needs to be realistic, in terms of his other commitments too, it's a balancing act, to make quality time for each other.
If however this relationship, doesn't succeed, then you'll have to keep working on yourself, so the next one will be healthier.
Instead of running away and overreacting, perhaps you might briefly step away and say something like...
This is a lot to process, I see things from your side and my own. I may need to step back to think clearly and then we can calmly discuss it later and come to an understanding that works for us both :)
@ScrabbleBrain thank you very much, I honestly learn a lot from this 😂. Right now I’m very confused and don’t know what to do because part of have hope because he still replied to my text and haven’t blocked me yet. But also fear as *** because he refused to talk and see me :(
@courageousShip9178 Happy to listen, I guess all you can do is be patient right now and try and keep busy :)
I don't think you're chances is high because once guys de attached you can't get them back in any point. My ex did same too me like you do but at the end she made me villan and she was one who was doing bad things behind me😅
@powerfulHouse9182 I don’t think my chances are high too, he still reply to my text and haven’t block me yet but he refuses to talk and see me. I honestly still have some hope and want to try more but in the meantime I feel very bad too for what I’ve done and out of that guilt I want to let him go to someone better than me.
I know it's hard time and sorry to hear about an update. Please don't think you are not better. You are best version yourself to forgive people and most strongest person to let go that you love someone deeply. You are saying your chances are low think about me😞 I'm completely shattered my ex broke up with me on 4th of August 2025. I have no way to contact her except her email I tried my everything to do and get her back but I'm not getting her email back for even for low pressured email. I'm still hoping. Even if it is 8 months being separated to her I still love her as way I loved her first time. Please try to follow complete no contact period it might help you.
Do not just stay silent but work on your growth yourself. I hope you get what u looking for.
Wishing for your good health and peace. It's not easy for someone.
an update for everyone, I think we broke up for real