scared of commitment
i am wondering, is here anyone who is scared to get into a serious romantic relationship? Because i am, and i just wanted to know if there are others like me and if they have figured out why they feel this way?
@Marie1992 mhm I feel I am , it is something I still haven't properly addressed so you're doing way better here by actually talking about it 💕
I do feel scared I guess it's because of multiple reasons, I fear vulnerability, have a hard time trusting people or opening up with them , attachment issues etc I also feel that I'm mostly scared of people leaving me after ummm being close or getting to know me more, earning my trust ... and idk it's too much risk and I fear it so much that it hampers my relationships of any kind with anyone , theres lots of boundaries, walls, defenses set up and idk just hard to really do anything about it :')
have you considered what could be the underlying reasons for you? you can share also 💕 you're not alone