Am I wanting a platonic relationship or am I just wanting a role filled?
Idk what category to put this in, oh well.
Does anyone know what the difference between these two are? When you're working hard to improve yourself to be good enough for someone yet you don't currently have any romantic or sexual attraction (those things don't really seem to happen for me all that much and if they do they're extremely fleeting). But idk maybe I'm just selfish and want them to fill the role of someone that is always there and stuff. Idk if I'm making any sense. Actually I know I didn't explain things well enough ..bleh
Hey there! That does sound like a confusing situation to be in 
Writing down your thoughts can defintely be helpful, and noticing if they change overtime. If they do, how are they changing? Additonally, asking how the other person is feeling toward you can be helpful as well! Good luck. On a side note, I've relocated your thread to a more suitable forum community - in the Relationship Support subcommunity. I placed it in the Friendship subforum, as there was no subforum for platonic relationships or what you were describing, so that was the closest area. If you'd like, I can remove it to another subforum such as Relationship Questions.
