'Friendship on 7cups' FAQ Series Continues..
Hi everyone, a special thanks to those who supported, participated and encouraged @Bubblegumwings1234 and @Fristo 's initiative to post a popular question each day on friendship with a related activity.
Here's what good came out of the efforts so far-
Day 1-
#A friend is someone around whom one can be oneself, be vulnerable, and still be accepted and loved.
#A friend is the one, who believes in giving, giving happiness, giving everything what they can offer to you.
#A friend is someone who helps you explore your real-self and encourage you live your full potential.
More here
Day 2-
#A friendship on 7cups could be especially good, because here it would be a person to person talk, like a pure soul connection - Your country, attractiveness, money, nothing matters.
#What one can really enjoy about making friends at 7 cups is the opportunity to meet other people without the perceptual filters and stereo-types we inevitably have.
#However, for the connection to remain pure and healthy, one needs to maintain healthy boundaries, be strong enough to not get attached to the other person, as well as the other person needs to be a person of integrity.
Full post here
Day 3-
#In a true friendship, the only rule is to be yourself. This friendship won’t ask you to curb yourself in any way. It won’t even ask you to behave a certain way.
Rather, it’d ask you about your happiness, and then encourage you to follow that path!
#A true-friend wants to see their friend happy, with them or without them. True friendship is free from a sense of possession, demands or attachment.
#Any pure relation on this mother earth, is a relation of true-friendship at its core.
Here's today's question and activity for you all-
What steps can be taken to ensure that a friendship on 7cups remains a healthy friendship?
One of the strongest steps one can take the moment one finds the other-person/oneself getting overly-dependent in the friendship is this reminder-
Remind to oneself and to them why we are here and what we do here (on 7cups), and that this purpose matters above all.
Activity-
Tag a 7cups friend with whom you imagine maintaining a healthy relation in the weeks and months to come.
@kindLemonade @Rohitbhardwaj @theriverissinging @alwaysindigo @JustOneMoreEpisode @BecauseImBatman22 @Star996 @SparkyGizmo @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @whenitsdarklookforstars @Saifelhak74 @ouiCherie
You are not about your falls, but about your spirited bounce-backs!
@Fristo
every words is your very good, sounds spiritual and it's great, if everyone will do this then our relationship will be very good in this earth, everything is soo true fristo. 😊🤗 Thanks for sharing. You are an amazing and wonderful person, even in the rooms, your supportive behaviour is really good. 😊😊 Love you fristo. I appreciate your hard work for our 7 cups community. And the way you are spreading happiness like a true friend it's wonderful. 😊
@Bubblegumwings1234 thanks bubble for working in this, thanks for your hardwork, and thanks to share this beautiful message. You are my wonderful friend in 7 cups. 🤗😊
I agree 100% Fristo, it is indeed such an important reminder to keep the purpose of 7 cups and why we are here above everything , like a guiding light in all our future interactions with everyone around .
As for me , I think it is also important to be mindful of our boundaries 😊
@Fristo
What steps can be taken to ensure that a friendship on 7cups remains a healthy friendship?
I think healthy boundaries can be encouraged as they are very important in a healthy friendship. If a person feels uncomfortable with the other one, they can tell the person instead of being quiet in fear that they will create a bad image in the person's mind. They can also tell them what they want and be fully open. It is difficult, but it's important too.
@Star996 Makes sense
You are not about your falls, but about your spirited bounce-backs!
@Fristo