Friendships

I've have constantly noticed my so called friends just back Stab me in the back, are fake and don't care about me. Sometimes it's so much easier to be alone. Why are friendships so toxic??

I've never had a friend and most likely never will. Many people complain about their friendships but when you get left alone for too long you start to lose your mind and go insane. So too all those people who take friends for granted just be glad your not like me. Alone and insane.

friendship is the most valued relation. Though i have had an experience in which my bestest friend of 7 years just ignored me and walked out without giving any reason. I understand that there must be something in me that was repelling and she moved out. I wish she get all the happiness that she is looking for. God Bless her.

I have friends that I've known for 12+ years, but the sad thing is when everyone forgets that you exist. A friend is someone whose always there willing to help through all of your struggles.

I honestly think the biggest thing is that everyone has their struggle in life. Really terrible habits that they learned from their parents, feelings and emotions that they can't express.

Everyone is struggling and no one actually wants to be alone. We need to feel connected. Even on something like this platform. This is why there are so many people coming on here. They want to feel heard when they can't be in their own lives.

If your friends do betray you, then you can of course push them out of your life immediately and protect yourself, but you should also try to have some compassion towards them. Try to understand what sort of patterns and behaviourspushed them to do something like that.

Also know that just because someone treats you badly, doesnt mean you did something to deserve it. In fact, in most cases, people's poor behaviour is an expression of their own struggle.

A person who is insecure about gaining weight because their parents are always pressuring them, is more likely to point out flaws regarding weight in other people.

A person who is struggling with self-esteem might abuse other people wiht low self-esteem .They are projecting their own self-criticism and hate towards others.

It's just...never as it seems on the surface and the best way to connect to someone is through this very skills, active listening.

i dont have friends, have never had friends, and never will have friends b\c i dont want friends, have never wanted friends & willnever want friends. b\c i dont need friends, have never needed friends and never will need friends.

Friendships can be so frustrating. Right now my friend is avoiding me and I don't even know why. I feel like it has smting to do with finding out a secret I only told a few friends.. But I don't know for sure :( I kept trying to talk to her but she always ignores me and avoids me. I thought we were actually good friends... Maybe I was wrong.

Just when the caterpillar thought the world was ending, he turned into a butterfly." --Proverb

i need a frI end who could always help me in need n be loyal to me as I'm to them

I've come to a realization that no matter how badly my friends hurt me, or attack me, make me feel like a complete worthless person I always run back to them. I've known them for so long it's hard to let them go. They know everything about me and I know everything about them. I keep telling myself you don't need a person like that in your life but it's seems to be that I'll never fully let them go.