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I might have ruined a friendship

User Profile: MetalunaJuan1998
MetalunaJuan1998 February 26th, 2022

I think I messed up in a really awkward way.

So, I was at a concert and my friend/bandmate was there with his girlfriend. I never met her, but I knew who she was because of my friend's instagram. I was talking to another friend, and I saw her for about 2 seconds, since she was behind my other friend at a distance, and checked her out unintentiontionally.

I think she might have noticed and told my friend to leave, because I didn't see them for the rest of the show and my friend didn't say good bye.

I don't know if I'm overthinking or they left for another reason. If I'm right, I feel bad for making her uncomfortable and potentially having ruined my relationship with my friend and bandmate. I don't know what to do.

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User Profile: Lifeonmars787
Lifeonmars787 February 27th, 2022

Hey! I honestly don't think this is a reason to break up a friendship, but I wouldn't want to come to any conclusions by not being in the situation. How about texting your friend to set up a meeting and tell him about it? There's probably a good reason they didn't say goodbye before leaving. In any case, asking seems to me the only solution. Hope things work out, all the best.