I need advice urgently

@greentown8145 i would just ignore her if the guy likes you then go for it if she has a bf she shouldn't care that your going out with with that guy if you decide to.

@greentown8145 been bullied too, Green. Yr gurl sounds aggressive because she is insecure, i wld keep outta her way. Poor you. On 7 cups, i reported the lady that was abusive. To me. When the guy she liked talked to me, she fabricated lies.

@greentown8145

Hey there, hopefully you are doing well. There's a few things I would like to point out;

I'm having some trouble with someone I'm in collage with. She used to go to my high school and she physically and verbally bullied me, (This is really rough, you didn't deserve to go through any of this. Its really unfortunate she treated you this way) putting me down whenever she had the opportunity, (This is awful...she sounds like the type of person who needs to put down on order to feel better) but I didn't realise it at the time (I see why you wouldn't realize it at the time because for you it felt normal, and its a treatment you have gotten used to) and still forgave her for everything she would do to me. (I dont think you actually "forgave her", i feel like you thought you forgave her because you didn't want to be alone and she was your only connection at the time, so you kept forgiving her) I cut all ties with her once I moved onto collage and somewhat moved on and forgave her slightly (although it was stupid). We became slightly closer through the first could of months of collage only because she was in all my classes. She had a crush on this boy about 4 months ago but soon she moved on with a boy that is now her boyfriend. The boy she had a crush on has recently started talking to me and has asked me on a date, when I told her about it she got annoyed and started crying (just to get sympathy from others) and I am being made out to be the bad person. (She sounds insecure and jealous, it almost sounds like her ego got bruised when her crush likes you more than her) I didn't think I was doing anything wrong as she's moved on with her boyfriend that she's been seeing for about 2 months but I don't know, (You didn't do anything wrong here, it just seems like she sort of likes the guy even though she has a bf. She comes across as someone who enter relationships to feel loved, validated and filled without caring too much about the other person) I suffer with anxiety and I don't really know what to do. Her friends have started arguments with me but I try to be the bigger person and ignore it but it's really hard. I still low-key hate this girl but I tolerate her and act friendly towards her. (One important thing you mentioned here is "i tolerate her" even though you hate her, so this could mean you rather tolerate someone mistreating you than to possibly leaving their life because of how it would be perceive) She's the type of person who wants to be better than anyone else, and she would put me down Infront of others to give off the impression that she's tough. (This really hurts...she sounds incredibly toxic and feels very empty inside. Someone will tell you how much they care through their actions, and her actions are telling me she is very selfish and toxic. You don't have to stay in friendships where you are being mistreated like this because you are worthy, enough and loveable) She hurt me so bad physically that I couldn't lie on my back because of the bruising. I'm an idiot (You are not an idiot at all, its just really tough walking away from people who are this toxic. It's so important to respect and value yourself enough where you are able to cut her off for good because her issues will affect your mental health and self esteem)