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It's over!

User Profile: Summershy
Summershy September 22nd, 2020

I wanted to first of thank everyone for their support on my last post regarding my "Friend." I also talked with another good friend of mine outside of 7cups. She said that it sounds like he just wanted to manipulate me and treat me like a doormat. She also agreed that he had been dumping his problems on me. Therefore, that friendship is over. I have decided to write him a direct and assertive letter about why the friendship is over.

1. I listened to a youtube video about confronting manipulative people

2. I deleted his contact information

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User Profile: MidwesternCalmSeeker
MidwesternCalmSeeker September 23rd, 2020

@Summershy

Thanks for sharing, Summershy. It's so hard to go through a break-up, no matter the circumstance. Looks like you are processing your emotions and taking steps to feel better. You inspired me today! Take care.

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Summershy OP September 23rd, 2020

@MidwesternCalmSeeker

Thanks, he's worth my time and nor is he worthy of me. Therefore, why should I waste my time by allowing myself to be a treated like a doormat? I have my own life and it's too short for me to invest my time in someone who dislikes me.

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User Profile: MidwesternCalmSeeker
MidwesternCalmSeeker September 24th, 2020

@Summershy

I hear you. You are, indeed, worthy of respect! Stay strong.

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Summershy OP September 24th, 2020

@MidwesternCalmSeeker

I look at his picture now and I can't help but feel creeped out every time I look at it. I especially felt that way when I finally saw his true colors the last time I interacted with him.

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Summershy OP September 24th, 2020

@MidwesternCalmSeeker

In all honesty, I don't want to talk to him again.

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Summershy OP September 24th, 2020

@Summershy

*He's not worth my time.

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