It's over!
I wanted to first of thank everyone for their support on my last post regarding my "Friend." I also talked with another good friend of mine outside of 7cups. She said that it sounds like he just wanted to manipulate me and treat me like a doormat. She also agreed that he had been dumping his problems on me. Therefore, that friendship is over. I have decided to write him a direct and assertive letter about why the friendship is over.
1. I listened to a youtube video about confronting manipulative people
2. I deleted his contact information
@Summershy
Thanks for sharing, Summershy. It's so hard to go through a break-up, no matter the circumstance. Looks like you are processing your emotions and taking steps to feel better. You inspired me today! Take care.
@MidwesternCalmSeeker
Thanks, he's worth my time and nor is he worthy of me. Therefore, why should I waste my time by allowing myself to be a treated like a doormat? I have my own life and it's too short for me to invest my time in someone who dislikes me.
@Summershy
I hear you. You are, indeed, worthy of respect! Stay strong.