Need advice

Sounds like you both need to ask yourselves some serious questions. How do you feel about her? Your choices should be based on how you feel, not what someone else wants/needs. *hugs

@intellectualBalloon205

Hi there.. I moved this to the RelationshipSupport forum :)

It's really hard to answer those questions.

You haven't told us much about coordinates of your friendships. How long have you two been friends, what makes you question this & also I am not quite sure what to understand here. Are you unsure about what will happen if you move with her to a new city?

Indeed as @wilingDime7346 said, you have a big decision to make. It's easy to say "yes" without thinking just considering your feelings for each other, but moving out to a new city means having to change a lot in your own life.

How willing are you to do this? If you two are good friends, there is indeed love between you two. But what kind of love are you askin'?

It's best to talk about this with her and decide what that means for your future. I'm sure that if she moves alone you will still remain in good terms, a friendship doesn't disappear just like that.

So I'm feeling kind of awkward atm,..........I have a couple of friends Kathryn and Martin ( these are in a relationship together) iv known Kathryn 8years and Martin 4years, they took me into their home when I was going through a hard time in life and have always been there to support me, but the past few months Kathryn had made a couple of what I think "inappropriate" jokes, I once thought she liked me but I never let it go beyond a thought and still wouldn't want anything more then a friendship from her. It just makes me feel rather uncomfortable being here when she makes these remarks especially an she does it front of Martin, I know neither of them are happy being together so I thi k she is just trying to annoy him which makes it worse in my eyes. I just don't know how to deal with it without it causing an issue