Pushy Friend
I have this friend who blocked me awhile ago who seemed to think I was full of drama. We talked constantly, and daily it was very hurtful, but I moved on. Because we did talk constantly I decided to reach back out to her, and she apologized, and we caught up. I’m going through some things I’ve been sharing with her, and I feel like she keeps telling me what to do, and when to do it. I know she’s just trying to be helpful, but it’s just all overwhelming. I just need a friend to listen not tell me when to do things etc. which makes me feel like reaching out to her in the first place was a bad idea. I mentioned this to her, and yet she still telling me to order things less then a week, and call the leasing office etc. should I bring it up again, and possibly end the friendship? I also feel she’s a bit negative to certain things as well, and never sees my side on things and sometimes makes things about her.
Overbearing friends can be too much to handle. Sometimes they are more meddlesome than parents. Since it seems you have been prepared to end the friendship, I'd say give it a go because judging from your story, the negativity seems to outweigh the potential positivity. Do it in an amicable way if at all possible.