Trust Issues
I have a best friend who is a guy, let's call him L. So L and I have been best friends our whole lives. A couple months ago it was to the point where we were about to start dating but I went on vacation and didn't get to text him as much as I wanted to. During that time I was on vacation, L was with another girl, T, and she kissed him and they ended up together even though L knew I wanted to be with him. Now that a few months have gone by and T sees how close L and I are, she doesn't trust that I won't try to do something with him or vice versa. L and tried convincing her many times that she has nothing to worry about but she still is suspicious of me. Yes I still want to be with L and L still cares about me just as much as T, but T gets overly jealous when we are alone together or just hanging out together. This is a sticky situation.
@FusedAtTheWrist - It is definitely a tough situation when those feelings are there, but trust issues are getting in the way. Do you think there's anything that would reassure T that while you care about L, you wouldn't try to 'steal' him away? Or do you think that this is something that L and T need to figure out within their relationship and your role is just to continue to be a friend?
