What do I do?

Don't worry about that,It happens to most of us,I have thought on similar lines and I completely understand how you are feeling now,Just be who you are and change only when you are willing to change for your well being,people who matter in your life and people who really see your worth will appreciate it and those who don't won't,look at it this way I read this in a meme:"People usually ignore costly things,things which are beyond their affordability",so you must be really precious and costly,Also there is not just one mind on this planet,so you'll really have a hard time catering to all their expectations therefore the easy and healthy way out is be yourself and not be who they want you to be.Hope this has been insightful for you.

Good day lad!

@neatAcai2431

I'd agree, don't worry about it. I don't think it's you. People need to actually put in some effort in a relationship for it to work out. You can't just one-handedly do it, they need to try for it too.

@neatAcai2431

So you wonder why people would move away from you and yet you push people away? The information you've given isn't entirely so concise.

First off, there's a difference between people leaving your life so easily versus that of you pushing people out of your life. The motive and objective is different. Learn the difference because this is very important in the long run.

Secondly, as much as you can wonder on yourself being in the wrong, it does not always work that may. Maybe the other party is. Maybe you are. Maybe both of you simply aren't compatible. You should know by now that compatibility is a fervent important thing in social connecitons. Hence why birds of a feather flock together. Psyschology can add on to that.

Thirdly, you don't really need to change yourself completely for another person. However you do need to change for the better. The question is, what particular traits, habits, or perspectives do you need to change on? You choose that yourself. Someone may point it out but you will be the one to choose whether you change or not.

Lastly, weird or not, it doesn't matter. There will always be people that can be different or similar. It's the beauty of humanity. We're all unique yet our similarities and differences tie us together. You may think you're weird but for another person you might just be normal. It's subjectivity and relativity.

Hope this answers it :)

@neatAcai2431

@neatAcai2431

Hey don't feel down,what significant;y happened for you to feel like this, did a special relationship end? or is this in general?. For me I have lost my bestfriend and my boyfriend to another girl who entered into our group at school and she does not like me. I have learn from everyone leaving, my ex always having other girls in mind and never treating me right, my bestfriend always choosing someone elses side and lashing out at me, I was never right to her. I have learnt that people can only be kept if they want to be kept and that's the whole truth everyone has a choice. And if you are talking about in general then you should never change who you are for people, the right ones will love and care for who you are just the way you are, you don't have to silence yourself more or anything. All people want is respect that's all you can give them but if you give them respect then they should give you respect also and it is harmonious. If someone does not ile you in particular then the best thing to do is move away and don't look back. The whole point is why do you want people in your life who do not value you or want to be there right.

I moved your thread to Relationship Questions. :)