did i do something wrong
There's this one friend, who i actually used to have a crush on, that i care about a lot but it feels like they don't care about me anymore. It feels like I'm just air to them, as if they're avoiding me. I've been trying my best to send them messages once in a while but they all get ignored. The last time they replied to me was months ago, but the last time we actually had a good conversation was probably last year.
I feel lonely without them because i don't have many friends and it finally felt like i found someone who i had so much in common and felt comfortable talking to. The conversations started getting shorter and they started replying later at the end of last year because of school but they still always answered. After new year we have exchanged only a few messages and now they're not replying at all. Their exams ended a few months ago and i thought that now they would finally answer me since they're free from school but nothing happened. I've tried so many times to talk to them i don't know should i try anymore. But at the same time i don't want to lose them because they're so precious to me. At this point i just don't know what to do.
@sinclair There's always the possibility that it has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with you. It could be they're going through something, that life got in the way, etc.
There's also the possibility that the relationship has run its course. Which is also nothing to do with you, but sometimes these friendships fade with time and they don't feel the same anymore. It happens. It's happened to me and it's made me sad, but sometimes you move in diffrent places in life and that's not something you've done.
@ReadBooksDrinkTea Yeah, that's true. It's sad to see the friendship fading and i want to do my best to make it last but if they're not willing to do something for it too then i don't have the energy to try anymore.