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User Profile: babytomato
babytomato September 25th, 2014

I love my best friend <3 ....worst part...he loves someone else :'( #horrible #hurtful

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User Profile: Dragon2
Dragon2 September 25th, 2014

#iknowthefeeling

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User Profile: babytomato
babytomato OP September 26th, 2014

Yeah :(

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User Profile: Sabah123
Sabah123 September 25th, 2014

This is a common and very upsetting place to be, it's like being stuck between a rock and hard place , but the best thing a person can do is try to focus their strength some where else. I know it is easy said than done but it is one of those things that will take time to get over but if you have told him how you feel and he doesn't feel the same way, it's best to move on but that doesn't mean you can't still be friends. Time is a great healer and the only way to achieve happiness is by letting things go that are not meant to be. This means their is something greater for you yet still to come . Maybe you want to tell him about your feelings?maybe that will help you overcome the feelings you have for him? Maybe telling him will let you find closure and allow him be with who we wants.?

i wish you the best of luck and am here to listen

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User Profile: babytomato
babytomato OP September 26th, 2014

I feel he loves his ex gf still...becz he trusts me a lot and tells me everything. ..nd so once in a while tells me he misses her...and yea I havent told him..coz..I fear wat if things wont be the same as it is now..we are very close now. And its really hurting me inside. We chat like All day...that hurts too..coz in my mind there's something else..nd in his mind another. I just dont know how to deal with it

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User Profile: Sabah123
Sabah123 September 26th, 2014

This is a common and very upsetting place to be, it's like being stuck between a rock and hard place , but the best thing a person can do is try to focus their strength some where else. I know it is easy said than done but it is one of those things that will take time to get over but if you have told him how you feel and he doesn't feel the same way, it's best to move on but that doesn't mean you can't still be friends. Time is a great healer and the only way to achieve happiness is by letting things go that are not meant to be. This means their is something greater for you yet still to come . Maybe you want to tell him about your feelings?maybe that will help you overcome the feelings you have for him? Maybe telling him will let you find closure and allow him be with who we wants.?

i wish you the best of luck and am here to listen

that doesn't have to be a sad thing , remaining friends issometimes better especially if he doesn't feel the same way. This way your relationship can be stronger .

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User Profile: babytomato
babytomato OP September 26th, 2014

I know...but I'm just not able to take it. I love him so much.he means the world to me.

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User Profile: Sabah123
Sabah123 September 26th, 2014

https://www.7cups.com/1627575 , please click here if you want to talk in depth and I can try to figure out a path that makes the most sense to you , I know it's very hard for you and can be upsetting but maybe you should confront your feelings to him but only you can be the judge of that and know if that's the best for you and him weighing up how it can effect the current relationship you share as friends. Alternatively if the link does not work , browse listeners and search for sabah123 and I will be happy to talk further and help you .

kind regards sabah

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User Profile: babytomato
babytomato OP September 26th, 2014

Yeah thank you so much :) I will connect to you soon !

User Profile: babytomato
babytomato OP September 26th, 2014

Hey sabah..I'm not able to connect with you. Idk y. I'm scared, scared to tell him how I truly feel. What if the answer I want isn't the answer I receive? I fear rejection. They say it's better to have tried then not to at all, but sometimes that just isn't enough. Sometimes all trying does is get him feel weird and clueless. I really don't know what to do, but I do know is that I don't want to lose him. One part of me says to try, to let it all out and tell you how I really feel, maybe that's what I should do. who knows, it might be for the better, but then again the other part of me tells me to leave my feelings concealed. It tells me that trying is worthless, and then I'm reminded of my past which was nothing but pain and suffering. What should I do? which side do I choose? these conflicting emotions are killing me inside.

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User Profile: Sabah123
Sabah123 September 26th, 2014

on this website if you browse for listenersand search sabah123you should be able to connect with me . Right I understand you must be feeling quiteupset and confused due to all the emotions you have. I completely understand and wish you the best. Only you can make that decision of whether to confront your feelings or not. Maybe looking at the situation from a differentperspective will help but ultimately you are the judge. Maybe weighing up the pros and cons will help. Maybe should should consider what will happen and what are the chances, what will you lose. You need to find the innerstrength and think in terms of reality. Again do find me on the website , I am here to listen and wish you the best

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User Profile: Sabah123
Sabah123 September 26th, 2014

My referral link ,https://www.7cups.com/1627575 or alternatively browse for sabah123

happy to listen

User Profile: babytomato
babytomato OP September 26th, 2014

Yeah....it's showing " this listener may only listen to other adults" -.-

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User Profile: Sabah123
Sabah123 September 26th, 2014

Perhaps, I'm not sure if I can change that , are you below 18 years if age

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User Profile: babytomato
babytomato OP September 26th, 2014

Yup...but even if I try to connect to teens..sometimes this happens. So yeah . -_-

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User Profile: babytomato
babytomato OP September 26th, 2014

I dont know wats wrng..u mind connecting with me ?

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User Profile: Sabah123
Sabah123 September 26th, 2014

I'm not able to connect with you, can I get in contact with a mentor and we can discuss it tomorrow, is that okay?

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User Profile: babytomato
babytomato OP September 26th, 2014

Yup its fine :)

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