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my fake friend(s)??

User Profile: Hydrangea03
Hydrangea03 April 12th, 2015

i have a friend. We have been friends for like 6 years. We were good until we reached grade 6. She started to drift away from me. Since we were from different classes, I sometimes went to her class and take her to the canteen so we can talk and eat together. That only happened for like, 5 days.

until when i went to her class again, she refused to get out. i saw her hanging out with the other friends. Feeling weird, i ask her through IM. She said that i was a boring friend so she looked for others better than me.

And then that's it, so i looked for other guys too. Her mother was a long time good friend of my mom, so we actually get along well, since she has the same interest as i do. she often told me about how she didn't have any friends, lonely, etc.

so i was her friend, and we went to the canteen together almost all the time. Once i was eating alone, waiting her to come because her class wasn't released yet. And then i saw her with other people, and i suppose she saw me but pretended that she didn't.

i feel used. Both of them just like, they used me when they had problems and once they don't, they'll just throw me away. Thankfully I found heaps of other friends, including online,

That was my story. Please do realize you're not alone and if you need a talk or a friend i'm here.

:)

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User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat April 14th, 2015

enlightened

Aww, I understand what are you going through right away. I'm much relatable much into this too. -huggles tight- I know you are strong enough. (:

Real friends are always there for you, you can trust them to keep your secrets, share you laughter and your tears, fake friends are never around when you really need them, they want to know about you so they can tell others and most of the time they laugh at you instead of with you.

It's sad how quickly people can forget about you until they want something from you.
People know who they can walk over and who they can't. So, if someone is walking all over you it's because they know you'll put up with it.
Sometimes people in your life will try to expose what's wrong with you because they can't handle what's right with you!

It's so ironic. The people in my life who say, 'I'm always going to be here for you.' are the ones that walk away first.
Don't be ashamed of finding out who your fake friends are, be happy for never being one of them.