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User Profile: smolstrawberries
smolstrawberries September 28th, 2020

I'm someone who bottles up their feelings a lot so I can take care of everyone else and make sure they are okay. but lately it has been really hard to and I keep on getting really mentally drained from bottling up everything for such a long time. and I decided that I might finally open up to my best friend about some of the stuff that has been happening. I'm kinda hesitate because I know he has been through a lot and I don't want to add more stress onto him. but I feel really comfortable around him and he says he is there for me always. I'm just kinda torn about what to do. open up to someone finally or possibly don't bother anyone?

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User Profile: 7motivation
7motivation September 28th, 2020

@smolstrawberries

If you decide to open up,
avoiding the Drama Triangle roles
can make it go better.

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User Profile: basilcandle
basilcandle September 28th, 2020

@smolstrawberries

hi there! sorry to hear that a lot has been challenging you lately. keeping things for yorself is not always good and simply talking to someone about your problems really helps. you know your friend best and i am sure he cares about you and he will offer you support.

i sometimes find it hard to talk to my friends about my problems or about the things i am struggling with, but in the end i always find someone that can listen to my thoughts, stranger or friend, and it makes me feel not so anxious. if you decide to open up to your friend, you don t have to feel bad about it at all, this is what friends are for!

i am wishing you the best! hope i helped you<3