14 years together she cheated
I'm so lost right now . I'm turning 35 next month and found out that my girl of 14 years cheated on me 2 times with some guy. We have 2 kids, one is not mine but I've been there since she was born. I went up and seen her when she was born. 2 weeks after we started to date. 4/20/2009. I'm hurting really bad and I don't know what to do...do I stay or do I leave. DO I forget about it? She don't know what or why it happen she says.
@UnlikelyBag5072
There is a lot to sort out ..... many believe that only breaking up / divorce etc is the answer.....
It takes strength and time to work through it and many keep the relationship....couples counseling or steady communication about everything in the relationship.
I think that most know why something happened that is a big line to cross .. if she truly does not maybe she needs to do therapy so she does ...or she needs to tell you the truth as IMO some spouses that stray ..do not say what it was to try to minimize the damage to their partner.
