Abortion/ was he scared or I'm forcing him to "love" a baby he didn't want?
Should I leave the man I love and thought I would grow old with after he suggested we should consider having an abortion, we already had a 1 1/2 year old boy when we found out I was pregnant again. The baby is now 9 months but I realized a couple of moths ago I haven't forgiven him for suggesting that even after we talked about it and he apologized there's times I see him playing with the kids and my mind goes into dark thoughts of " thoes he really loves our daughter or is he just forcing himself to"/ "is he forcing himself to pretend to be happy" " is my fault that he is stressed and depressed " ?
@Storm1994 if hes apologised....he probably deserves to be believed ... in times of stress people do think about abortion.. personally I find it very offensive but from what I understand people are thinking about practicality... not about love and virtue.... maybe you could ask him what his line of thinking was- to get some clarity. If he looks happy playing with the kids, he probably is. What would be the need to force it? I dont think you should leave him just because of this. But I do think you should have a better understanding of each other....
