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Accusations, and separation from my siblings

I have an older brother, little sister, and a little brother.

23,14, and 7.

But I've never met them until 10 months ago, because I was away in a different country for 9 years (I'm 19 now).

I tried to connect with my little sister.

Texted her, got to know her, we spent some time playing her games.

One day, I got her a gift on her birthday.

My mom found out, she insulted me, kept calling me names, accused me of having romantic feelings to my own little sister, made her block me and cut off our connection.

She told her that it's inappropriate to be around me, even if we're siblings.

Now my little sister is always anxious around me, never initiates, treats me like a stranger.

I moved on, focused more on my little brother.

I have a ps4, I thought of a good way to allow him to play on it, which is using the reward system.

Started small, just a few English words and he can play.

He was okay with it, then he got bored and started complaining.

Our mom found out, and instead of asking me anything, she accused me of hurting and teasing him, told him that I'm stingy and cruel.

Instead of discussing a healthy method with me, she insults and accused me of being mean to him.

She took him away to live somewhere else with his aunt just because I'm not satisfying him every time he wants to play on something he doesn't own..

And she gives him her phone 24/7, he does nothing but playing endlessly from morning to next morning.

But I get told that I'm cruel for trying to do something that will help him.

My older brother is on her side, he doesn't even ask for my side or discuss anything, he accuses me just like her without listening.

What do I do?

They're the only people I have in my life.

Friends and girlfriends would never fill that hole that only they can.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 16th

@sensitivePal85266

I don't understand why your mother is so insulting and cruel, it's difficult for you to build a healthy relay, when she's like this 😔🩵

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"My dear, your words touched my heart, and I felt that I had to tell you this.

You are a special person, do you know why?

Because despite the harsh and hurtful way your family has treated you, you still love them and try to stay close to your siblings.

I want to tell you again that you are special and beautiful, and you have a kind soul. Don’t be sad, these are just days and they will pass. I hope that, with time, the relationship between you and your family becomes better.

But I want you not to feel that you are alone. If you ever need someone to talk to, I am here, and I will always be here to listen to you.

I forgot to say that I am 19 years old too. 🌹🫰

❤️‍🩹"**

my love 'Roma