Advice

@neatNest3185

There is no one clear sign or how much to tolerate it varies per person. It is a hard decision and we always seem to talk ourselves in and out of it.    i know in my world i should have gone a while ago but i am afraid of starting over and being alone or tell myself as others have most of our issues are small in comparison.

But i am truly unhappy and no longer feel the way I used to ....... and do not see that coming back. 

perhaps you can meditate on it and you will know if now is the time or not.

@neatNest3185  I've been in that dilema for quite some time now, I came across a book called "Too good to leave, too bad to stay," I recommend it. It's helping me gain clarity about what my next steps will be.