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User Profile: Bri132
Bri132 January 13th

How do I deal/cope with an inattentive partner? I am tired of feeling alone.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 January 13th

@Bri132

Speak up and let them know how you feel.   it does not fix itself. they may snap out if they feel you moving on but it will be a short burst and back to inattention because they feel you will accept it 

 If they say the " I am trying" maybe want, you to tell them exactly what to do then walk away.  IMO it is not helpful if I have to give them a script to get attention, it is pretend.

  In the end if you can talk and they really absorb what you are saying there is a chance otherwise resentment will build. Know you are worth attention in a relationship and should not settle to be there like a pet hoping they pay attention for short time.