Affair or love
I was in love with a guy but due to arranged marriage pressure he got married first and then I got married with someone else. We started living but unexpected I couldn't find the excitement or intimacy with my husband. Then unexpectedly I ment the guy I used to love and things are exactly how it was left. How do I explain this???
@fourclover4567
You had an emotional connection with your person .... you arranged marriages must not consider that only looking for outside factors. This is hard to deny and pretend all is well now that both of you married your arranged spouses.
That emotional connection is stronger. when we hold on to that even if we live our lives separate, it is there and often blocks out making a connection with your spouse as they will never be that other person.
This is real love in my view. It is the difference of some who stay together forever through all things and others who fall in out of infatuation and say it is love.
